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How To Kiss Your Boyfriend

It can be nerve-wracking to kiss a new guy you’re with, because, like most things in life, everyone has their own opinions of what makes a good kiss. Before you start worrying about how to kiss your boyfriend, there are some basic things that nearly everyone agrees on.

Kissing Your Boyfriend – Tips to Bear in Mind

1.) Stay relaxed: It is really awkward to be kissing someone who is all tense and stiff. When you relax both of you can enjoy the experience more. Keeping your whole self relaxed also helps you keep your lips relaxed and soft, which is what you want them to be.

2.) Engage your whole body in the kiss: Don’t plaster yourself on your boyfriend, but do be totally present in the kiss. A good kiss isn’t just about the lips; it is about the whole experience. You can do this by making sure that you’re focused on experiencing the sensations of the kiss and not busy thinking if the kiss is good, or what you should do next, or what commercial is playing on the TV in the background.

3.) Start soft and build from there: A soft kiss leading that potentially leads to a more intense kiss is sexier than mashing your lips together right from the start. It also helps prevent mishaps like cracking your skulls or teeth together.

4.) Start simple: Along the same lines as starting soft, if you go straight for a French kiss, then you’ve got nowhere else to go. You deny yourself and your boyfriend the enjoyment garnered from progressing from a basic soft kiss to a deeper one.

5.) Go slow: A slow kiss is way more enjoyable then a rushed one. Don’t worry about doing a particular thing at a particular time, just take your time and enjoy the experience of whatever comes. Kissing is not a race.

6.) Use your hands: You can run your hands through their hair, hold the back of their head or neck, or wrap your arms around their shoulders or waist. Engaging your hands or arms in the kiss adds to the overall experience and helps keep you focused on the moment.

7.) Experiment with speed and intensity: You don’t want to rush your kiss, but you don’t want a monotone kiss either. Changing up the speed and intensity keeps the kiss interesting and helps you figure out what works best for you and your boyfriend. Different people like different types of kisses; it can take a bit of experimenting before you both find a compatible style.

8.) Try to have fresh breath: You don’t want to have stinky breath when you go for a kiss. It detracts from the experience and can literally leave a bad taste in your boyfriend’s mouth. You don’t have to have perfect, minty fresh breath, but it should be clean.

9.) Talk about what you both enjoy: This speeds up the process of figuring out compatible kissing styles and allows both of you to enjoy the kisses more.

How Not to Kiss Your Boyfriend

1.) Stick with lips alone: Many people enjoy being kissed on their necks, earlobes, or on the nap of their neck. People like to be kissed different places, so explore a bit.

2.) Choke your boyfriend when French kissing: Massaging tongues together can be enjoyable; gagging the other person with your tongue is not.

3.) Wear tons of lip gloss: While lip gloss can make your lips look great, it makes for messy, goopy kisses. Along those same lines, if you’ve just put on lip stain or are wearing a lot of lipstick let it dry and dab any excess off. Most guys don’t appreciate wearing Berryblastic Red.

4.) Give overly wet kisses: This will remind him of when his dog greets him. Sandpaper dry kisses aren’t great, but the majority of people would rather have an overly dry kiss than deal with an overly slobbery kiss. Also avoid sneezing or snotting on them, that’s what tissues are for.

5.) Share germs: If you have a sore throat, think you might be sick or actually are sick, don’t share it with your boyfriend. They will appreciate your courtesy.

Key to Good Kisses

Everyone is different when it comes to kisses, so the best thing you can do to ensure you both have a good experience is to be comfortable with each other. Being comfortable will let you feel more confident about yourself, and confidence is sexy. You won’t be worrying about how to kiss your boyfriend and will spend more time enjoying the sensations of the kiss.

This article on the tips for kissing your boyfriend has been written by expert author ‘Emily Cordz‘.